farlenrejorano
Don Juan
I'm in
Even if there isn't anybody with me, I'm gonna post my results.
Even if there isn't anybody with me, I'm gonna post my results.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJ Online Correspondence University... Classes starting soon!
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BJJkid
Don Juan
If you guys start a new boot camp ill definitely be down.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Well, I'd love to learn more about 4-7...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Seeking Advice
Don Juan
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this is about 6 years and 6 months late but...
who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
BecauseICan
New Member
i was planing on starting it on sept 1st, but i rather do it with others so give me a heads up
Latim
Don Juan
im in.. send me a PM when you plan on starting.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It was from years ago. Like most things online it was b.s. C'mon, 20 hours a week? Some 13 year old must have liked tossing out the number 20, because nobody is going to follow through with those kinds of hours.Rexx said:
BDACKKGOTEM
New Member
I'm starting I see all these users are old and this may even be an ancient thread but I am new to these forums so whatever.
vivek59234
Don Juan
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I am in DJ... woohoooo
pimpin goldie
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im in
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GreatLover
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Engines started and ready to launch out!
Feast.of.Snake
New Member
Hi all,
I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in !
This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.
See ya
Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in !
This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.
See ya
Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
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Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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I'm in this. I used to be really sharp, but got rusty after a 2-year LTR. I'm
starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
BettorOffSingle
Banned
How long before "let's help everyone out" becomes "this is a lot of work and I need to offset expenses" to (his fans) saying "He DESERVES to make money for helping everyone!"
Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?
My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.
Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.
Just sayin'....
Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?
My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.
Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.
Just sayin'....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.