"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Axcell

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Sexual said:
Newbies that are reading this post:

This is the original post from years ago. If you want to participate in the course, look for NEW boot camps to go along with in the DJ Discussion Forum. If you'd like to start your own boot camp, name it and give a few days on the board, and some people might go along with you.
Most of you guys need to learn how to read.
The original post was made years ago!
 

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count me in. phew atlast something which will make things more practical
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Seeking Advice

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this is about 6 years and 6 months late but...

who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
 

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I was thinking about doing it again
 

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Sheesh Masters Are You Reading This..............u Should Have Soem Sort Of Credentials To Start A Course.

At Least Be At The Masters Level............u Are Making A Mockery A Guys Who Truly Understand This Stuff
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rexx said:
Don't know if this is still on, but I'm in
It was from years ago. Like most things online it was b.s. C'mon, 20 hours a week? Some 13 year old must have liked tossing out the number 20, because nobody is going to follow through with those kinds of hours.
 

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I'm starting I see all these users are old and this may even be an ancient thread but I am new to these forums so whatever.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm 17 In grade 12 and I live in south Africa and I would like to dedicate myself to your program
 

Feast.of.Snake

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Hi all,

I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in ! :)

This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.

See ya

Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
 
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Masculinity

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I'm in this. I used to be really sharp, but got rusty after a 2-year LTR. I'm

starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
 
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How long before "let's help everyone out" becomes "this is a lot of work and I need to offset expenses" to (his fans) saying "He DESERVES to make money for helping everyone!"

Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?

My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.

Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.

Just sayin'....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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