farlenrejorano
Don Juan
I'm in
Even if there isn't anybody with me, I'm gonna post my results.
Even if there isn't anybody with me, I'm gonna post my results.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJ Online Correspondence University... Classes starting soon!
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BJJkid
Don Juan
If you guys start a new boot camp ill definitely be down.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Well, I'd love to learn more about 4-7...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Seeking Advice
Don Juan
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this is about 6 years and 6 months late but...
who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
BecauseICan
New Member
i was planing on starting it on sept 1st, but i rather do it with others so give me a heads up
Latim
Don Juan
im in.. send me a PM when you plan on starting.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It was from years ago. Like most things online it was b.s. C'mon, 20 hours a week? Some 13 year old must have liked tossing out the number 20, because nobody is going to follow through with those kinds of hours.Rexx said:
BDACKKGOTEM
New Member
I'm starting I see all these users are old and this may even be an ancient thread but I am new to these forums so whatever.
vivek59234
Don Juan
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I am in DJ... woohoooo
pimpin goldie
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im in
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GreatLover
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Engines started and ready to launch out!
Feast.of.Snake
New Member
Hi all,
I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in !
This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.
See ya
Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in !
This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.
See ya
Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
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Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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I'm in this. I used to be really sharp, but got rusty after a 2-year LTR. I'm
starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
BettorOffSingle
Banned
How long before "let's help everyone out" becomes "this is a lot of work and I need to offset expenses" to (his fans) saying "He DESERVES to make money for helping everyone!"
Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?
My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.
Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.
Just sayin'....
Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?
My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.
Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.
Just sayin'....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.