farlenrejorano
Don Juan
I'm in
Even if there isn't anybody with me, I'm gonna post my results.
Even if there isn't anybody with me, I'm gonna post my results.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BJJkid
Don Juan
If you guys start a new boot camp ill definitely be down.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Well, I'd love to learn more about 4-7...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Seeking Advice
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this is about 6 years and 6 months late but...
who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
who wants to start a boot camp group? anyone?
BecauseICan
New Member
i was planing on starting it on sept 1st, but i rather do it with others so give me a heads up
Latim
Don Juan
im in.. send me a PM when you plan on starting.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It was from years ago. Like most things online it was b.s. C'mon, 20 hours a week? Some 13 year old must have liked tossing out the number 20, because nobody is going to follow through with those kinds of hours.Rexx said:
BDACKKGOTEM
New Member
I'm starting I see all these users are old and this may even be an ancient thread but I am new to these forums so whatever.
vivek59234
Don Juan
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I am in DJ... woohoooo
pimpin goldie
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im in
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GreatLover
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Engines started and ready to launch out!
Feast.of.Snake
New Member
Hi all,
I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in !
This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.
See ya
Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
I'm Snake, 26 old. I'm very shy so i think it will be hard for me but i'm motivated so count me in !
This bootcamp has started a long time ago so don't hesitate to start (or restart) with me.
See ya
Edit: I didn't see the last posts, i will start a new thread...
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Masculinity
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I'm in this. I used to be really sharp, but got rusty after a 2-year LTR. I'm
starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
starting to bounce back after the break-up six months ago. Let's do it!
BettorOffSingle
Banned
How long before "let's help everyone out" becomes "this is a lot of work and I need to offset expenses" to (his fans) saying "He DESERVES to make money for helping everyone!"
Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?
My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.
Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.
Just sayin'....
Along similar lines, if all the free material here is so great, why all the ads for PUA products?
My other caveat is simple: FOUR MONTHS? It took me SIXTEEN YEARS after my first kiss to get truly "great" with women (great as in domianting one woman into letting me use her AOL account at $2.95 an hour to pick up other women in 1996). You won't even know how your women turn out with age for another twenty years! I know checking up on my first love(s) was eye-opening, particularly when I saw that many of them never married at all, or very late in life.
Unless you're commercializing, why bother announcing a program? That's what internet marketers do. They also don't charge at first to slip under any SPAM radars.
Just sayin'....
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.