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got it, nevermind.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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- Thread starter diablo
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i liked the old java chat, i dont like the irc thing .
bring back the java, we can all use our registered names...
bring back the java, we can all use our registered names...
It would be cool, but damn it would be flooded too!
"do you think this girl likes me if she stares me at school hallway?"
"Should I wear black or brown shoes for my first date?"
"Is it ok to tell her I love her? We've been dating for two weeks."
"What if her boyfriend is around?"
"I'm hopeless, I'm never gonna be any good."
"My girlfriend kicked my ass. How do I continue our relationship?"
".. But my mom said I should be nice to everybody!"
"Is it ok to give her flowers on second date?"
"I DON'T have oneitis for her! but I still can't help thinking her all the time and making loveletters to her."
"My dog puked in her shoe, does that mean she hates me now??"
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
how about keep a cap on the size each room on the chat client can get. and if you want to speak to some one specificly well you can speak to them seaprtly like at present.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It would be all good if someone did that...
AND
Allen would bring it back...
I remember I quite recently requested about adverticing our chatroom. I got a negative answer.
So I don't think the java chat is coming back even it's a good idea.