A&F Brand Cologne
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got it, nevermind.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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- Thread starter diablo
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i liked the old java chat, i dont like the irc thing .
bring back the java, we can all use our registered names...
bring back the java, we can all use our registered names...
It would be cool, but damn it would be flooded too!
"do you think this girl likes me if she stares me at school hallway?"
"Should I wear black or brown shoes for my first date?"
"Is it ok to tell her I love her? We've been dating for two weeks."
"What if her boyfriend is around?"
"I'm hopeless, I'm never gonna be any good."
"My girlfriend kicked my ass. How do I continue our relationship?"
".. But my mom said I should be nice to everybody!"
"Is it ok to give her flowers on second date?"
"I DON'T have oneitis for her! but I still can't help thinking her all the time and making loveletters to her."
"My dog puked in her shoe, does that mean she hates me now??"
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
how about keep a cap on the size each room on the chat client can get. and if you want to speak to some one specificly well you can speak to them seaprtly like at present.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It would be all good if someone did that...
AND
Allen would bring it back...
I remember I quite recently requested about adverticing our chatroom. I got a negative answer.
So I don't think the java chat is coming back even it's a good idea.