A&F Brand Cologne
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got it, nevermind.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DJ Chat!
- Thread starter diablo
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i liked the old java chat, i dont like the irc thing .
bring back the java, we can all use our registered names...
bring back the java, we can all use our registered names...
It would be cool, but damn it would be flooded too!
"do you think this girl likes me if she stares me at school hallway?"
"Should I wear black or brown shoes for my first date?"
"Is it ok to tell her I love her? We've been dating for two weeks."
"What if her boyfriend is around?"
"I'm hopeless, I'm never gonna be any good."
"My girlfriend kicked my ass. How do I continue our relationship?"
".. But my mom said I should be nice to everybody!"
"Is it ok to give her flowers on second date?"
"I DON'T have oneitis for her! but I still can't help thinking her all the time and making loveletters to her."
"My dog puked in her shoe, does that mean she hates me now??"
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
how about keep a cap on the size each room on the chat client can get. and if you want to speak to some one specificly well you can speak to them seaprtly like at present.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It would be all good if someone did that...
AND
Allen would bring it back...
I remember I quite recently requested about adverticing our chatroom. I got a negative answer.
So I don't think the java chat is coming back even it's a good idea.