"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Taz

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Master of the Universe, I think this is something we've all been wanting to start, but didn't have the time or motivation to do so. Thanks for taking the time to set this thing up. One suggestion though, don't forget to include some of Allen's articles as reading materials. These have helped me immensley.

Oh yeah, count me in.
 
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Master of the Universe,

Great job you are doing here!
I am late, but better late than never...
Please count me in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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im in

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Talk is cheap.

Imitation is the death of ones self.

Dont wish u would have done something when u had the chance.

Boys do what they can... men do what they want.

Get out of ur comfort zone.

aim- oakraiderz2
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I want to learn and develop excellent motu you are ahead of the game indeed, my highest praise goes to you for your INITIATIVE

I im in as well
 

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I'm also in the last couple weeks of a semester, will be home shortly, but like has been said... its just a new pool. I'll definitely run with this. It's a great idea. I've been doing similar exercises on my own, glad to finally have some structure to my bothering random people.
 

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Better late than never...I'm in!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brownsugar

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Better late than never...I'm in!!
 

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It's on like Donkey Kong. Sounds like this will be an interesting experiment, with basically nothing to lose, and a whole lot to gain. I think it will stop me from being lazy, which is my trademark. Lets get started!

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Master of the Universe

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Alright guys, welcome aboard!

There are now about 60 DJs that have taken up the challenge!!!

The first lesson is already up. Only thing though, is that since you started a bit late, you have to hustle to stay with the rest of the group.

Right now, go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html and read the lesson description. You have until this Sunday to complete the two exercises, and to go through the reading material.

So good luck, and be prepared for one hell of a time!

Master of the Universe

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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