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springer
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I'm definitely in for this
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mysticfree
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please count me in
Guerreiro Sinistro
Don Juan
me too
Taz
Senior Don Juan
Master of the Universe, I think this is something we've all been wanting to start, but didn't have the time or motivation to do so. Thanks for taking the time to set this thing up. One suggestion though, don't forget to include some of Allen's articles as reading materials. These have helped me immensley.
Oh yeah, count me in.
Oh yeah, count me in.
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ACEMAN
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Master of the Universe,
Great job you are doing here!
I am late, but better late than never...
Please count me in.
Great job you are doing here!
I am late, but better late than never...
Please count me in.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
im in
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Talk is cheap.
Imitation is the death of ones self.
Dont wish u would have done something when u had the chance.
Boys do what they can... men do what they want.
Get out of ur comfort zone.
aim- oakraiderz2
eclipse23gst
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Talk is cheap.
Imitation is the death of ones self.
Dont wish u would have done something when u had the chance.
Boys do what they can... men do what they want.
Get out of ur comfort zone.
aim- oakraiderz2
eclipse23gst
[email protected]
PeterNorthStyle
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I want to learn and develop excellent motu you are ahead of the game indeed, my highest praise goes to you for your INITIATIVE
I im in as well
I im in as well
RiversCuomo
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I'm also in the last couple weeks of a semester, will be home shortly, but like has been said... its just a new pool. I'll definitely run with this. It's a great idea. I've been doing similar exercises on my own, glad to finally have some structure to my bothering random people.
Brownsugar
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Better late than never...I'm in!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Brownsugar
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Better late than never...I'm in!!
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Dakken
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Count me in.
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StellarPKT
Master Don Juan
It's on like Donkey Kong. Sounds like this will be an interesting experiment, with basically nothing to lose, and a whole lot to gain. I think it will stop me from being lazy, which is my trademark. Lets get started!
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psme1
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count me in
please email me with what i need to do to be in!
please email me with what i need to do to be in!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Inspector_0
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I'm in.
Master of the Universe
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Alright guys, welcome aboard!
There are now about 60 DJs that have taken up the challenge!!!
The first lesson is already up. Only thing though, is that since you started a bit late, you have to hustle to stay with the rest of the group.
Right now, go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html and read the lesson description. You have until this Sunday to complete the two exercises, and to go through the reading material.
So good luck, and be prepared for one hell of a time!
Master of the Universe
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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
There are now about 60 DJs that have taken up the challenge!!!
The first lesson is already up. Only thing though, is that since you started a bit late, you have to hustle to stay with the rest of the group.
Right now, go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html and read the lesson description. You have until this Sunday to complete the two exercises, and to go through the reading material.
So good luck, and be prepared for one hell of a time!
Master of the Universe
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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
Masteringknowledge
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Im in!
spy_at_night
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Experiment
Game
FUNNNNNNNNNN
I am innnnnnn(pun intended ;-))
Game
FUNNNNNNNNNN
I am innnnnnn(pun intended ;-))
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jim_147
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let do this thing
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.