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springer
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I'm definitely in for this
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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- Thread starter Master of the Universe
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mysticfree
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please count me in
Guerreiro Sinistro
Don Juan
me too
Taz
Senior Don Juan
Master of the Universe, I think this is something we've all been wanting to start, but didn't have the time or motivation to do so. Thanks for taking the time to set this thing up. One suggestion though, don't forget to include some of Allen's articles as reading materials. These have helped me immensley.
Oh yeah, count me in.
Oh yeah, count me in.
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ACEMAN
Guest
Master of the Universe,
Great job you are doing here!
I am late, but better late than never...
Please count me in.
Great job you are doing here!
I am late, but better late than never...
Please count me in.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
im in
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Talk is cheap.
Imitation is the death of ones self.
Dont wish u would have done something when u had the chance.
Boys do what they can... men do what they want.
Get out of ur comfort zone.
aim- oakraiderz2
eclipse23gst
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Talk is cheap.
Imitation is the death of ones self.
Dont wish u would have done something when u had the chance.
Boys do what they can... men do what they want.
Get out of ur comfort zone.
aim- oakraiderz2
eclipse23gst
[email protected]
PeterNorthStyle
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I want to learn and develop excellent motu you are ahead of the game indeed, my highest praise goes to you for your INITIATIVE
I im in as well
I im in as well
RiversCuomo
New Member
I'm also in the last couple weeks of a semester, will be home shortly, but like has been said... its just a new pool. I'll definitely run with this. It's a great idea. I've been doing similar exercises on my own, glad to finally have some structure to my bothering random people.
Brownsugar
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Better late than never...I'm in!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Brownsugar
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Better late than never...I'm in!!
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Dakken
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Count me in.
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StellarPKT
Master Don Juan
It's on like Donkey Kong. Sounds like this will be an interesting experiment, with basically nothing to lose, and a whole lot to gain. I think it will stop me from being lazy, which is my trademark. Lets get started!
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psme1
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count me in
please email me with what i need to do to be in!
please email me with what i need to do to be in!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Inspector_0
Guest
I'm in.
Master of the Universe
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Alright guys, welcome aboard!
There are now about 60 DJs that have taken up the challenge!!!
The first lesson is already up. Only thing though, is that since you started a bit late, you have to hustle to stay with the rest of the group.
Right now, go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html and read the lesson description. You have until this Sunday to complete the two exercises, and to go through the reading material.
So good luck, and be prepared for one hell of a time!
Master of the Universe
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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
There are now about 60 DJs that have taken up the challenge!!!
The first lesson is already up. Only thing though, is that since you started a bit late, you have to hustle to stay with the rest of the group.
Right now, go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html and read the lesson description. You have until this Sunday to complete the two exercises, and to go through the reading material.
So good luck, and be prepared for one hell of a time!
Master of the Universe
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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
Masteringknowledge
New Member
Im in!
spy_at_night
New Member
Experiment
Game
FUNNNNNNNNNN
I am innnnnnn(pun intended ;-))
Game
FUNNNNNNNNNN
I am innnnnnn(pun intended ;-))
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jim_147
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let do this thing
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.