"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taz

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Master of the Universe, I think this is something we've all been wanting to start, but didn't have the time or motivation to do so. Thanks for taking the time to set this thing up. One suggestion though, don't forget to include some of Allen's articles as reading materials. These have helped me immensley.

Oh yeah, count me in.
 
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Master of the Universe,

Great job you are doing here!
I am late, but better late than never...
Please count me in.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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im in

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Talk is cheap.

Imitation is the death of ones self.

Dont wish u would have done something when u had the chance.

Boys do what they can... men do what they want.

Get out of ur comfort zone.

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I want to learn and develop excellent motu you are ahead of the game indeed, my highest praise goes to you for your INITIATIVE

I im in as well
 

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I'm also in the last couple weeks of a semester, will be home shortly, but like has been said... its just a new pool. I'll definitely run with this. It's a great idea. I've been doing similar exercises on my own, glad to finally have some structure to my bothering random people.
 

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Better late than never...I'm in!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Brownsugar

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Better late than never...I'm in!!
 

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It's on like Donkey Kong. Sounds like this will be an interesting experiment, with basically nothing to lose, and a whole lot to gain. I think it will stop me from being lazy, which is my trademark. Lets get started!

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Master of the Universe

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Alright guys, welcome aboard!

There are now about 60 DJs that have taken up the challenge!!!

The first lesson is already up. Only thing though, is that since you started a bit late, you have to hustle to stay with the rest of the group.

Right now, go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html and read the lesson description. You have until this Sunday to complete the two exercises, and to go through the reading material.

So good luck, and be prepared for one hell of a time!

Master of the Universe

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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