"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJ Boot Camp - Course Description (class is now in session)

Don Napolitano

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Introducing myself:

I'm a friend of KometaAmarelo (we live next to each other and go to the same Uni. - management).

I'm 21 and I've never chased girls tough a couple girls chased me


Well, I'm more naive than AFC really, I'm just to damn lazy to be going after girls..tough deep down it might all be about fear of failure..

Well, I'm joining to get out of the confort zone.

I'm the meantime I do aikido and procrastinate the rest of the time
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dr_Feelgood

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I like Rico Suave's idea of having a few "guest" lessons from Master DJ's. Maybe at the end, or even sometime early in the program. Some of the guys on here could come up with some great ideas that would be a big help.
 

Hero of the Day

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Sounds great, count me in.

I'm a 20 year old student from Australia.

I read this site because in my 20 years I haven't gotten anywhere with women and I think I ought to try and change that.

I haven't had the guts to take action yet. I think this boot camp is just the kind of thing I was look for to give me a kick start
 

bfl

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yeah yeah watup you all this is bfl, i already know that girls are attractive to me....for example yesterday i was at the mall and i was trying this shoes on and a girl anout a 9.9 walked in front of me and stop she then started to stare at my shoes i said "u like 'em" she said "yeah i'ma get them" at this point just by the body language i knew that she was interested in me.then she started to start a conversation, she said "but u gotta have the jersay to wear those shoes" i said "i got it"
The only mistake i made was that i left right away and i didn't even ask her for her phone number cause i didn't know how to keep the conversation going. i guess that this boot camp will help me to start a conversation and end it with the digits.

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Master of the Universe

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Well guys, we're ready to get started! The first lesson is up and running. Let's get going!

DJ Boot Camp - Week #1 http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014030.html

Master of the Universe

P.S. Rico Suave, I like your idea very much. If any experienced DJs want to contribute to this project in a specific capacity, such as being a guest Drill Seargent, please let me know by e-mailing me at [email protected]

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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valikyule

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hey, I have the same problem. I'm graduating from college and would love to see where this goes.

count me in too
 

MG69

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Hey Master of the Universe,

i have a little suggestion to add to your course.

we all know that we have to have confidence, control, being a challenge and humour to be a successful DJ.

just wondering if u would like to add some more lessons on control, being a challenge and humour.

i am willing to help plan these if needed.

and i hope upon the completion of the whole boot camp thingy, it will be put into the DJ bible as a section by itself.
 

Master of the Universe

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MG69,

"we all know that we have to have confidence, control, being a challenge and humour to be a successful DJ.

just wondering if u would like to add some more lessons on control, being a challenge and humour."

I had a few things planned on those subjects, but I would love to hear your suggestions, and of course I'll be happy to give credit where credit's due. E-mail me at [email protected] with your ideas. Thanks.

Master of the Universe

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dee-Zy

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hmmm, kinda late, but better late then never.

BlEh!



GHOST

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I'm Ghost, Peace Out.

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late but am in. knee injured, so will practice in the hospital..hehe
Another AFC

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It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong
man stumbled or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The
credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred
with dust and sweat and blood...and who...if he fails, at least fails while
daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid
souls who know neither victory nor defeat
-THEODORE ROOSEVELT
 

Ronin

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I'm in.....so whats the date that this first lesson/excersise will be posted? Or has it already been?

Sean
 

WHOYODADDY0069

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What's up Don Juaner's, it's Daddy!!! And i'm definately going to give it hell during the DJ Boot Camp. Its a great idea and i'm definately recommending it to some of my buddies. I'm a little late in registering, but I can catch up quick. As for the introduction: I'm 27 yrs. old, live in Boston where there are lots of hotties. College girls everywhere. I decided to team up with you guys to get some help in trying to score with as many ladies as I can. I want to be the the Master Don Juan from Boston. Can't wait to get started!!!! Talk to you all soon..... Daddy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wish to learn the way of the force. Thank you great Juan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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