"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Disrespect from a Friend

cottage5217

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I've got a friend of mine who always brags and sometimes even belittles me, about how much of a player he is and I am not. The thing is, he usually has to be pretty wasted to even go up to a girl, and most of the girls that he has messed around with are not quality ladies. A lot of the time I'll even call him on it, and tell him that if he is such a big player to approach a women but he always gives some excuse, and never does, or he'll make some comments about how he is gonna bang the chicks that I am banging. Personally I don't need to brag to add inches to my d*ck, but I am getting tired of this sh*t.

Anyone have any advice that has experienced something like this or just in general to how to deal with guys like this? Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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Simple.

You next them as friends or keep them but just find a way to patronize them and amuse yourself rather than letting them drive you crazy anymore.
 

Victory Unlimited

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As the great rocker/philosopher JOAN JETT said 20-plus years ago:

"You don't lose when you lose FAKE FRIENDS."

If you feel like this guy is really incorrigable, give his ass "curbside" service and leave him there for the early morning trash pickup.

Then...

...MARCH ON.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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cottage5217 said:
In other words NEXT! Thanks guys.
Yeah, I know a guy like that. Annoying and unreliable as a friend . It is all about HIM and his fragile ego.,,There is nothing about his friendship that I can " take to the bank."

Next !
 
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