"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Disrespect from a Friend

cottage5217

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I've got a friend of mine who always brags and sometimes even belittles me, about how much of a player he is and I am not. The thing is, he usually has to be pretty wasted to even go up to a girl, and most of the girls that he has messed around with are not quality ladies. A lot of the time I'll even call him on it, and tell him that if he is such a big player to approach a women but he always gives some excuse, and never does, or he'll make some comments about how he is gonna bang the chicks that I am banging. Personally I don't need to brag to add inches to my d*ck, but I am getting tired of this sh*t.

Anyone have any advice that has experienced something like this or just in general to how to deal with guys like this? Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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Simple.

You next them as friends or keep them but just find a way to patronize them and amuse yourself rather than letting them drive you crazy anymore.
 

Victory Unlimited

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As the great rocker/philosopher JOAN JETT said 20-plus years ago:

"You don't lose when you lose FAKE FRIENDS."

If you feel like this guy is really incorrigable, give his ass "curbside" service and leave him there for the early morning trash pickup.

Then...

...MARCH ON.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jophil28

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cottage5217 said:
In other words NEXT! Thanks guys.
Yeah, I know a guy like that. Annoying and unreliable as a friend . It is all about HIM and his fragile ego.,,There is nothing about his friendship that I can " take to the bank."

Next !
 
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