"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Disrespect from a Friend

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I've got a friend of mine who always brags and sometimes even belittles me, about how much of a player he is and I am not. The thing is, he usually has to be pretty wasted to even go up to a girl, and most of the girls that he has messed around with are not quality ladies. A lot of the time I'll even call him on it, and tell him that if he is such a big player to approach a women but he always gives some excuse, and never does, or he'll make some comments about how he is gonna bang the chicks that I am banging. Personally I don't need to brag to add inches to my d*ck, but I am getting tired of this sh*t.

Anyone have any advice that has experienced something like this or just in general to how to deal with guys like this? Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Simple.

You next them as friends or keep them but just find a way to patronize them and amuse yourself rather than letting them drive you crazy anymore.
 
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As the great rocker/philosopher JOAN JETT said 20-plus years ago:

"You don't lose when you lose FAKE FRIENDS."

If you feel like this guy is really incorrigable, give his ass "curbside" service and leave him there for the early morning trash pickup.

Then...

...MARCH ON.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cottage5217 said:
In other words NEXT! Thanks guys.
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Yeah, I know a guy like that. Annoying and unreliable as a friend . It is all about HIM and his fragile ego.,,There is nothing about his friendship that I can " take to the bank."

Next !
 
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