"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Disrespect from a Friend

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I've got a friend of mine who always brags and sometimes even belittles me, about how much of a player he is and I am not. The thing is, he usually has to be pretty wasted to even go up to a girl, and most of the girls that he has messed around with are not quality ladies. A lot of the time I'll even call him on it, and tell him that if he is such a big player to approach a women but he always gives some excuse, and never does, or he'll make some comments about how he is gonna bang the chicks that I am banging. Personally I don't need to brag to add inches to my d*ck, but I am getting tired of this sh*t.

Anyone have any advice that has experienced something like this or just in general to how to deal with guys like this? Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Simple.

You next them as friends or keep them but just find a way to patronize them and amuse yourself rather than letting them drive you crazy anymore.
 
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As the great rocker/philosopher JOAN JETT said 20-plus years ago:

"You don't lose when you lose FAKE FRIENDS."

If you feel like this guy is really incorrigable, give his ass "curbside" service and leave him there for the early morning trash pickup.

Then...

...MARCH ON.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cottage5217 said:
In other words NEXT! Thanks guys.
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Yeah, I know a guy like that. Annoying and unreliable as a friend . It is all about HIM and his fragile ego.,,There is nothing about his friendship that I can " take to the bank."

Next !
 
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