"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Disrespect from a Friend

cottage5217

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I've got a friend of mine who always brags and sometimes even belittles me, about how much of a player he is and I am not. The thing is, he usually has to be pretty wasted to even go up to a girl, and most of the girls that he has messed around with are not quality ladies. A lot of the time I'll even call him on it, and tell him that if he is such a big player to approach a women but he always gives some excuse, and never does, or he'll make some comments about how he is gonna bang the chicks that I am banging. Personally I don't need to brag to add inches to my d*ck, but I am getting tired of this sh*t.

Anyone have any advice that has experienced something like this or just in general to how to deal with guys like this? Thanks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KontrollerX

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Simple.

You next them as friends or keep them but just find a way to patronize them and amuse yourself rather than letting them drive you crazy anymore.
 

Victory Unlimited

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As the great rocker/philosopher JOAN JETT said 20-plus years ago:

"You don't lose when you lose FAKE FRIENDS."

If you feel like this guy is really incorrigable, give his ass "curbside" service and leave him there for the early morning trash pickup.

Then...

...MARCH ON.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cottage5217 said:
In other words NEXT! Thanks guys.
Yeah, I know a guy like that. Annoying and unreliable as a friend . It is all about HIM and his fragile ego.,,There is nothing about his friendship that I can " take to the bank."

Next !
 
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