You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah, you could do it like thisdispatch said:Hey Stallion, i was actually hoping you'd respond to this, I've gone back to look at the getting started diet - I'm hearing you on the three shakes w/ more eggs. I'm happy to convert cooked eggs to raw aswell, less mess to clean up anyway. so you recommend 10 - 12 eggs a day?
I'm running out of protein atm, so the shakes are limited to 1-2 scoops, however, getting some good whey soon. The fruit is usually bananna, apple or peach (atm). I've done the oatmeal in the shakes,that's good, but how do you put the p.b. in a shake without swallowing massive lumps of it?
I'll be doing a lot less karate and more lifting this year, and have stopped weighing myself obsessively. I'm ready for the long haul, it was good when i put a shirt on the other day, it was a bit tighter than i remembered! Also, how do you measure with the tape? middle of the muscle, unflexed i'm guessing?
cheers for the advice/encouragement man
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Right on Stallion. This will be my goal/base diet for the future.I-tallionStallion said:Yeah, you could do it like this
Meal 1 - 3 scoops whey + 3 Raw Eggs + 1/2 oatmeal + banana and 2 tbsp of natty peanutbutter
Meal 2- 1/2 steak or ground beef stirfry + salad with carb free dressing + 6 oz brown rice or one or two potatoes
Meal 3- 3 scoops whey + 4 Raw Eggs
Meal 4- 1/2 steak or ground beef stirfry + salad with carb free dressing
Meal 5- 3 scoops whey + 4 Raw Eggs + 2 tbsp of olive oil + 6 Fish Oil pills
Meal 6- Chicken Or Tuna + 6 Fish Oil pills
preworkout - 6 oz rice or 2 bananas
Post workout - 3 scoops whey
PP workout shake - 1 scoop of Carbogain for fast carbs (get it from Amazon)
Read all posts in the Vault...plenty of great advice and the guys almost always answered all the questions posted
I mean it depends on how active you are, the more active you are the more carbs you need. If you aren't extremely active watch the carbs as to avoid fat gain as much as possible
It's easy for peanut butter to go in a shake...blender!
The great thing about the shakes is that you can put it in a jug with ice and bring it where ever you want and sip it till its gone and boom..that's two meals while your out.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.