You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah, you could do it like thisdispatch said:Hey Stallion, i was actually hoping you'd respond to this, I've gone back to look at the getting started diet - I'm hearing you on the three shakes w/ more eggs. I'm happy to convert cooked eggs to raw aswell, less mess to clean up anyway. so you recommend 10 - 12 eggs a day?
I'm running out of protein atm, so the shakes are limited to 1-2 scoops, however, getting some good whey soon. The fruit is usually bananna, apple or peach (atm). I've done the oatmeal in the shakes,that's good, but how do you put the p.b. in a shake without swallowing massive lumps of it?
I'll be doing a lot less karate and more lifting this year, and have stopped weighing myself obsessively. I'm ready for the long haul, it was good when i put a shirt on the other day, it was a bit tighter than i remembered! Also, how do you measure with the tape? middle of the muscle, unflexed i'm guessing?
cheers for the advice/encouragement man
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Right on Stallion. This will be my goal/base diet for the future.I-tallionStallion said:Yeah, you could do it like this
Meal 1 - 3 scoops whey + 3 Raw Eggs + 1/2 oatmeal + banana and 2 tbsp of natty peanutbutter
Meal 2- 1/2 steak or ground beef stirfry + salad with carb free dressing + 6 oz brown rice or one or two potatoes
Meal 3- 3 scoops whey + 4 Raw Eggs
Meal 4- 1/2 steak or ground beef stirfry + salad with carb free dressing
Meal 5- 3 scoops whey + 4 Raw Eggs + 2 tbsp of olive oil + 6 Fish Oil pills
Meal 6- Chicken Or Tuna + 6 Fish Oil pills
preworkout - 6 oz rice or 2 bananas
Post workout - 3 scoops whey
PP workout shake - 1 scoop of Carbogain for fast carbs (get it from Amazon)
Read all posts in the Vault...plenty of great advice and the guys almost always answered all the questions posted
I mean it depends on how active you are, the more active you are the more carbs you need. If you aren't extremely active watch the carbs as to avoid fat gain as much as possible
It's easy for peanut butter to go in a shake...blender!
The great thing about the shakes is that you can put it in a jug with ice and bring it where ever you want and sip it till its gone and boom..that's two meals while your out.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.