You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah, you could do it like thisdispatch said:Hey Stallion, i was actually hoping you'd respond to this, I've gone back to look at the getting started diet - I'm hearing you on the three shakes w/ more eggs. I'm happy to convert cooked eggs to raw aswell, less mess to clean up anyway. so you recommend 10 - 12 eggs a day?
I'm running out of protein atm, so the shakes are limited to 1-2 scoops, however, getting some good whey soon. The fruit is usually bananna, apple or peach (atm). I've done the oatmeal in the shakes,that's good, but how do you put the p.b. in a shake without swallowing massive lumps of it?
I'll be doing a lot less karate and more lifting this year, and have stopped weighing myself obsessively. I'm ready for the long haul, it was good when i put a shirt on the other day, it was a bit tighter than i remembered! Also, how do you measure with the tape? middle of the muscle, unflexed i'm guessing?
cheers for the advice/encouragement man
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Right on Stallion. This will be my goal/base diet for the future.I-tallionStallion said:Yeah, you could do it like this
Meal 1 - 3 scoops whey + 3 Raw Eggs + 1/2 oatmeal + banana and 2 tbsp of natty peanutbutter
Meal 2- 1/2 steak or ground beef stirfry + salad with carb free dressing + 6 oz brown rice or one or two potatoes
Meal 3- 3 scoops whey + 4 Raw Eggs
Meal 4- 1/2 steak or ground beef stirfry + salad with carb free dressing
Meal 5- 3 scoops whey + 4 Raw Eggs + 2 tbsp of olive oil + 6 Fish Oil pills
Meal 6- Chicken Or Tuna + 6 Fish Oil pills
preworkout - 6 oz rice or 2 bananas
Post workout - 3 scoops whey
PP workout shake - 1 scoop of Carbogain for fast carbs (get it from Amazon)
Read all posts in the Vault...plenty of great advice and the guys almost always answered all the questions posted
I mean it depends on how active you are, the more active you are the more carbs you need. If you aren't extremely active watch the carbs as to avoid fat gain as much as possible
It's easy for peanut butter to go in a shake...blender!
The great thing about the shakes is that you can put it in a jug with ice and bring it where ever you want and sip it till its gone and boom..that's two meals while your out.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.