Disco Clubs - 5 second rule.

[MrS]

Do it.

Wait no longer than 5 seconds before seeing a hot chick and approaching, otherwise look for another.

I recently came to see the value of this, so just a reminder.

 

[Doggystyle]

Do it.

Wait no longer than 5 seconds before seeing a hot chick and approaching, otherwise look for another.

I recently came to see the value of this, so just a reminder.

Reason?

 

[Sekond]

The reason is if you hesitate, your mind becomes consumed with doubt. Therefore if you do it quick and within 5 seconds then you won't have time to doubt yourself, and you just do it.

 

[Embrace]

You start to think of all the possibilities.

"What if she has a boyfriend"
"What if she's creeped out"
etcetera...

Just a lot of "what if's"

 

[Tomatoes]

I think you'll find this tip was introduced to the community way back in the day, and its called the 3 Second rule - not the 5 second rule. Allows you go straight into the set without planting any seeds of doubt into your mind.

Research before posting tips.

Sarge On...

Dam you beat me to it!!!! I wanted to correct him! :trouble:

3 second rule for the win!! Works a dream. Fvck analazing the situation....not in clubs....

 

[Doggystyle]

I actually wanted to know mrs personal reason was, as he didn't answer it in his tip.

Also why 5?

Personally I think the 3 second rule is rubbish

 

[rsxtreme]

i like the five second rule,because you have an extra two seconds to get ready.

 

[realsmoothie]

Personally, I like six seconds, or seven if she's really hot. Six is enough to show that you're not desperate.

(if anyone gets the reference, and you dang well should considering it's the biggest DJ movie ever...)

 

[Lifeforce]

It's so crowded in a bar and peopel are often drunk so people don't give a **** about you anyway.

IMO 3,5,7 seconds is beside the point. Never go to a bar with the goal to pick up chicks because if it doesn't go well you go home with the tail between your legs. However if you go there just to have a kick ass time you'll:

- Have a blast even if every girl reject you
- Seem more attractice
- Take the girl into your reality
- Be so occupied by having fun you will not even get the chance to think about some girl
- Be able to approach when the time is right instead of just rushing in

get a nightlife

 

[Wiesman44]

Personally, I like six seconds, or seven if she's really hot. Six is enough to show that you're not desperate.

(if anyone gets the reference, and you dang well should considering it's the biggest DJ movie ever...)

6 or 7 seconds ? What are u a retard ? 6.45 seconds is CLEARLY all the time you need to approach.

 

[charlezz]

Does the 3sec rules apply to Club, street or both?

 

[ThePhoenixProject]

6 or 7 seconds ? What are u a retard ? 6.45 seconds is CLEARLY all the time you need to approach.

6.45?? Man, you are the retard!

I say it's 6.168 seconds! See that .168 there? That's a chinese secret of approach! That means "I'm on my way to greatness!" lol :crackup:

 

[Sekond]

Does the 3sec rules apply to Club, street or both?

anywhere... if they are near by, just dont use it at a family reunion

 

[d2j]

Almost every approach i do is in the club scene..when i first started not long ago i used the 3 secound rule but i found half the time i would just go right up to her and say something typical like "hi" "hey, whats your name"

lol!..terrible

Ive learned to prepare before i go out by keeping openers ive read or thought of/used before in the back of my mind ...just in case i cant think of anything good on the spot

Something i do first with the wingmen is go chill out and sit down with a couple of drinks and scan the area for HBs i want to talk to...as long as your a positive thinker you can watch a women for a while and something good to say will naturally come into your mind

 

[rsxtreme]

anywhere... , just dont use it at a family reunion

haha, who would do that?

 

[Sekond]

haha, who would do that?

dont know, and dont want to know

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

Never go to a bar with the goal to pick up chicks because if it doesn't go well you go home with the tail between your legs. However if you go there just to have a kick ass time you'll:

- Have a blast even if every girl reject you
- Seem more attractice
- Take the girl into your reality
- Be so occupied by having fun you will not even get the chance to think about some girl
- Be able to approach when the time is right instead of just rushing in

get a nightlife