"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Disco Clubs - 5 second rule.

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Do it.

Wait no longer than 5 seconds before seeing a hot chick and approaching, otherwise look for another.

I recently came to see the value of this, so just a reminder.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MrS said:
Do it.

Wait no longer than 5 seconds before seeing a hot chick and approaching, otherwise look for another.

I recently came to see the value of this, so just a reminder.
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Reason?
 
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The reason is if you hesitate, your mind becomes consumed with doubt. Therefore if you do it quick and within 5 seconds then you won't have time to doubt yourself, and you just do it.
 
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Shezz said:
I think you'll find this tip was introduced to the community way back in the day, and its called the 3 Second rule - not the 5 second rule. Allows you go straight into the set without planting any seeds of doubt into your mind.

Research before posting tips.

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Dam you beat me to it!!!! I wanted to correct him! :trouble:

3 second rule for the win!! Works a dream. Fvck analazing the situation....not in clubs....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I actually wanted to know mrs personal reason was, as he didn't answer it in his tip.

Also why 5?

Personally I think the 3 second rule is rubbish
 
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Personally, I like six seconds, or seven if she's really hot. Six is enough to show that you're not desperate.

(if anyone gets the reference, and you dang well should considering it's the biggest DJ movie ever...)
 
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It's so crowded in a bar and peopel are often drunk so people don't give a **** about you anyway.

IMO 3,5,7 seconds is beside the point. Never go to a bar with the goal to pick up chicks because if it doesn't go well you go home with the tail between your legs. However if you go there just to have a kick ass time you'll:

- Have a blast even if every girl reject you
- Seem more attractice
- Take the girl into your reality
- Be so occupied by having fun you will not even get the chance to think about some girl
- Be able to approach when the time is right instead of just rushing in

get a nightlife
 
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realsmoothie said:
Personally, I like six seconds, or seven if she's really hot. Six is enough to show that you're not desperate.

(if anyone gets the reference, and you dang well should considering it's the biggest DJ movie ever...)
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6 or 7 seconds ? What are u a retard ? 6.45 seconds is CLEARLY all the time you need to approach.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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6 or 7 seconds ? What are u a retard ? 6.45 seconds is CLEARLY all the time you need to approach.
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6.45?? Man, you are the retard!

I say it's 6.168 seconds! See that .168 there? That's a chinese secret of approach! That means "I'm on my way to greatness!" lol:p :crackup: :D
 
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charlezz said:
Does the 3sec rules apply to Club, street or both?
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anywhere... if they are near by, just dont use it at a family reunion
 
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Almost every approach i do is in the club scene..when i first started not long ago i used the 3 secound rule but i found half the time i would just go right up to her and say something typical like "hi" "hey, whats your name"

lol!..terrible

Ive learned to prepare before i go out by keeping openers ive read or thought of/used before in the back of my mind ...just in case i cant think of anything good on the spot

Something i do first with the wingmen is go chill out and sit down with a couple of drinks and scan the area for HBs i want to talk to...as long as your a positive thinker you can watch a women for a while and something good to say will naturally come into your mind
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lifeforce said:
Never go to a bar with the goal to pick up chicks because if it doesn't go well you go home with the tail between your legs. However if you go there just to have a kick ass time you'll:

- Have a blast even if every girl reject you
- Seem more attractice
- Take the girl into your reality
- Be so occupied by having fun you will not even get the chance to think about some girl
- Be able to approach when the time is right instead of just rushing in

get a nightlife
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