- Oct 23, 2016
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NAWALTAgain, cop out. I stay up late all the time to get work done that I didn't get done during the day so that I could participate in the family activities and be present as a father. I literally lost count a long time ago how many times my wife put the kids to bed, went to sleep and I'm down in my office working until 12-1-2 am to get work done. That didn't make me less horny or cranky the next morning because I got 3-4-5 hours sleep. It's an excuse for bad behavior. Could I be p*ssed off that I was ignored or less likely to do my work to take care of my family because my wife was ignorant, self centered and caring only about herself and the kids? No, I'm resentful but I still do what I need to do to the best of my ability.
you can't ascribe your personal experiences "I didn't get cranky" to her as justification.
That's like saying "I don't have a peanut allergy, so no one should be affected by peanuts"
We're all different. .
The sleep deprivation story was meant to be an illustration, not me trying to defend your wife's behavior. Idk what the personal issues are in your marriage.