"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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did sosuave come first?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Actually, the pimp sites were the first!
 

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Have you guys ever heard of the Internet Archive? http://www.archive.org/index.php

It's actually pretty cool, you can go find websites the way they use to be. I've even managed to find a few on there that I use to visit before they closed down.

Anyway, this is Sosuave back on June 06, 2000.
http://web.archive.org/web/20000606231254/http://www.sosuave.com/

While I don't remember the exact date I found it, this is roughly what Sosuave was when I stumbled into it.
http://web.archive.org/web/20030217112919/http://sosuave.com/

The forums are actually archived on there too, so it's pretty funny to check them out. From the time I found it, most of the people aren't around anymore, some still are. In the first archive, I didn't recognize anybody at all. The topics being discussed haven't changed a bit though.

As for which came first, I'm not sure. I tried checking fastseduction but it's not archived, and I'm not aware of too many other community websites. Maybe someone else can check it out to see which ones were first.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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redspicyflag said:
I'm curious though

since the pua's use our terminology

or do we use their's?
we use theirs... honestly I think most belong to DD mystery and that speed seduction guy. AMOG, LMR, ***** shield are Mystery.
 

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Most likely, it all came around within the same year, and everything shared with everything else.

Or not, I have no idea. ^_^
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
ahhhh I remember the day I found that. it was back in september of 2003, i was a freshmen in highschool... good ol days

you lucky mf i didnt find out about this stuff till frosh or soph year of college. if i knew what i knew now in hschool i would of been killing it back then
 

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I believe the order goes something like this: Speed Seduction -> mASF (fastseduction) -> Sosuave. So yes, the PUA scene came about sosuave. That's where much of the terminology derived. Also, yes I know I left out a boatload of other sites and "mentors" :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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