"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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did sosuave come first?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Actually, the pimp sites were the first!
 

SmoothTalker

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Have you guys ever heard of the Internet Archive? http://www.archive.org/index.php

It's actually pretty cool, you can go find websites the way they use to be. I've even managed to find a few on there that I use to visit before they closed down.

Anyway, this is Sosuave back on June 06, 2000.
http://web.archive.org/web/20000606231254/http://www.sosuave.com/

While I don't remember the exact date I found it, this is roughly what Sosuave was when I stumbled into it.
http://web.archive.org/web/20030217112919/http://sosuave.com/

The forums are actually archived on there too, so it's pretty funny to check them out. From the time I found it, most of the people aren't around anymore, some still are. In the first archive, I didn't recognize anybody at all. The topics being discussed haven't changed a bit though.

As for which came first, I'm not sure. I tried checking fastseduction but it's not archived, and I'm not aware of too many other community websites. Maybe someone else can check it out to see which ones were first.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonez

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redspicyflag said:
I'm curious though

since the pua's use our terminology

or do we use their's?
we use theirs... honestly I think most belong to DD mystery and that speed seduction guy. AMOG, LMR, ***** shield are Mystery.
 

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Most likely, it all came around within the same year, and everything shared with everything else.

Or not, I have no idea. ^_^
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
ahhhh I remember the day I found that. it was back in september of 2003, i was a freshmen in highschool... good ol days

you lucky mf i didnt find out about this stuff till frosh or soph year of college. if i knew what i knew now in hschool i would of been killing it back then
 

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I believe the order goes something like this: Speed Seduction -> mASF (fastseduction) -> Sosuave. So yes, the PUA scene came about sosuave. That's where much of the terminology derived. Also, yes I know I left out a boatload of other sites and "mentors" :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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