Did I Start DJing too Late?

[AlexKaiser]

So most of the girls I'm interested in are in the 18-21 age group, and before I had no confidence, no self-awareness (I used to think orbiting was the way to go, and the other AFC rumors to winning girl's hearts) and basically no game. After delving into this site and reading up on tips and advice, I believe that I can confidently start taking girls out on dates and avoiding all of the red flags that would turn me into a virgin worshiper at her feet.

Problem is I'm 25, going to be 26 this year. The attractive girls my age are raising kids they ended up being surprised with when they were 16-20, and are all looking for insta-daddies, and are basically on the "Looking for a serious partner to help me raise these kids because their dad bailed out."

Would aiming for girls younger than me be a bad idea due to the age gap, or will it not matter?

 

[El Payaso]

A 26 year old dating a 21 or 19 year old is perfectly fine especially when you have your $hit together.

 

[Infern0]

Lol im 30 and Have NO problems getting 18-21 (my preferred age group too) and theres guys on this site considerably older than me who do too.

The one thing i would say is you do need to maximize your appearence to be succesful with that age group, but a guy 25-35 who looks good, in killer shape with confidence, those young girls love it.

 

[lizardking82]

You're in the best age range to get them

Exactly. But still, do that only if you want casual sex. If you're looking for any kind of stability, sway off that age because they do not know the concept even if you give them a 5 hour presentation about it LOL

 

[froznie]

So most of the girls I'm interested in are in the 18-21 age group, and before I had no confidence, no self-awareness (I used to think orbiting was the way to go, and the other AFC rumors to winning girl's hearts) and basically no game. After delving into this site and reading up on tips and advice, I believe that I can confidently start taking girls out on dates and avoiding all of the red flags that would turn me into a virgin worshiper at her feet.

Problem is I'm 25, going to be 26 this year. The attractive girls my age are raising kids they ended up being surprised with when they were 16-20, and are all looking for insta-daddies, and are basically on the "Looking for a serious partner to help me raise these kids because their dad bailed out."

Would aiming for girls younger than me be a bad idea due to the age gap, or will it not matter?

Might matter for some girls, might not matter for others

my advice is just don't think about it. Stop caring. Stop thinking about it

Just think aobut WHAT YOU WANT

thats all that matters for you

other people think about what they want. Women think about what they want. Some are horny sluts and want to **** everyone. Some want marriage and kids. Who gives a ****.

You think about what you want

Forget everything else. Don't think about being good enough or having enough game or whatever it is. Don't lose your focus. Think about what you want. Because that's what she's doing.

 

[lizardking82]

Older women give you the wrong kind of stability

No, no, I totally agree, I did not say go for older women per se. I just mean, since he's 25/26, going for women his age gives him a much better chance of dealing with a person that has had some experiences (life, sexual, etc) and is much more mature in her brain. Of course there are 25/26 year old girls and even older who know nothing whatsoever and are not mature/stable, but I think chances of finding someone who might be willing to settle down are low when they're 18/19.

 

[AlphaNate]

Did I Start DJing too Late?

No such thing.

 

[Urbanyst]

Older women give you the wrong kind of stability

With women there is no such thing as stability.

 

[Red Legg]

I am 45 almost 46 and have fvcked 18-50.There is no restriction for a DJ, fvck whatever is legally possible in your area.I am quite confident a 90 year old DJ could get women in their 20's no problem with proper grandpa game.