"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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  1. DoofusDonutDude

    Can you pursue money and do game as well - when you're 25-35 or it's only one of the two?

    Hey, I'm 28.5 years old. Been thinking about this for a while now, from the poem " To the Virgins, to make most of time" - written quite literally for the virgins in that time to make the most of their youth in regards to sex - "Gather ye rosebuds while ye may, Old Time is still a-flying...
  2. CamCam

    Age; how much should it be considered?

    So I'm new, reaaaally new, and I'm 35. How much do you guys consider age in your approaches? Not at all, somewhat? Do I go balls to the wall and approach any girl I'm attracted to that seems of age, or would you recommend sticking to a range of sorts? I'm terrible at guessing a girls age...
  3. AlexKaiser

    Did I Start DJing too Late?

    So most of the girls I'm interested in are in the 18-21 age group, and before I had no confidence, no self-awareness (I used to think orbiting was the way to go, and the other AFC rumors to winning girl's hearts) and basically no game. After delving into this site and reading up on tips and...
  4. S

    Expat relationship dies slowly, blaming self yet can't find the cause.

    Thank you in advance for any advice you may offer. I'm in a dark place and am really in need of some straightening out. We met while we were both performers in China. We had immediate mutual high interest, and we found ourselves in a relationship fairly quickly, despite other opportunities I...
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