kingkong98
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this was a text convo
Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Did i go too far?
- Thread starter kingkong98
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thedude4242
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r u serious?
kingkong98
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yeah lol i think i just cost myself a few months of sex
SmoothTalker
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I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
kingkong98
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i was just tryin to joke around a little since she was talking down to me like "suck it yourself" so i figured id just talk down to her too..i put the wink face thinking it would make her realize that i was joking around but i dont think she realized itSmoothTalker said:I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
kingkong98
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yeah my bad, it was in texts not on aim so i couldnt really copy and paste the whole thing. its all good now anyway lol
lololololollolololololo ur so funny u must get all da girls dude.Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
Seriously, what the ****? Are you really asking "did i go to far"?