"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did i go too far?

kingkong98

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this was a text convo

Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are ;)
Her:Fvck you bye
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...

What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?

If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...

What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?

If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
i was just tryin to joke around a little since she was talking down to me like "suck it yourself" so i figured id just talk down to her too..i put the wink face thinking it would make her realize that i was joking around but i dont think she realized it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mustang92

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Ik the convo didnt start out wit suck it yourself so you got yourself in that postion by asking when she wasnt confortible or ready/ doesnt even like you

theres not nearly enough info for help us on this one
 
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kingkong98

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yeah my bad, it was in texts not on aim so i couldnt really copy and paste the whole thing. its all good now anyway lol
 

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Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
lololololollolololololo ur so funny u must get all da girls dude.

Seriously, what the ****? Are you really asking "did i go to far"?
 

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omg that is funny, i hope you have not just recentley met this girl.
 
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