kingkong98
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this was a text convo
Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Did i go too far?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thedude4242
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r u serious?
kingkong98
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yeah lol i think i just cost myself a few months of sex
SmoothTalker
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I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
kingkong98
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i was just tryin to joke around a little since she was talking down to me like "suck it yourself" so i figured id just talk down to her too..i put the wink face thinking it would make her realize that i was joking around but i dont think she realized itSmoothTalker said:I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
kingkong98
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yeah my bad, it was in texts not on aim so i couldnt really copy and paste the whole thing. its all good now anyway lol
lololololollolololololo ur so funny u must get all da girls dude.Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
Seriously, what the ****? Are you really asking "did i go to far"?