kingkong98
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this was a text convo
Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Did i go too far?
- Thread starter kingkong98
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thedude4242
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r u serious?
kingkong98
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yeah lol i think i just cost myself a few months of sex
SmoothTalker
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I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
kingkong98
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i was just tryin to joke around a little since she was talking down to me like "suck it yourself" so i figured id just talk down to her too..i put the wink face thinking it would make her realize that i was joking around but i dont think she realized itSmoothTalker said:I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...
What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?
If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kingkong98
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yeah my bad, it was in texts not on aim so i couldnt really copy and paste the whole thing. its all good now anyway lol
lololololollolololololo ur so funny u must get all da girls dude.Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
Seriously, what the ****? Are you really asking "did i go to far"?