"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did i go too far?

kingkong98

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this was a text convo

Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are ;)
Her:Fvck you bye
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...

What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?

If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
 

kingkong98

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SmoothTalker said:
I just really don't understand what you were trying to do here...

What possible positive result did you expect from your comment?

If you weren't expecting anything positive, then I'd say it worked, she probably won't talk to you for a while.
i was just tryin to joke around a little since she was talking down to me like "suck it yourself" so i figured id just talk down to her too..i put the wink face thinking it would make her realize that i was joking around but i dont think she realized it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ik the convo didnt start out wit suck it yourself so you got yourself in that postion by asking when she wasnt confortible or ready/ doesnt even like you

theres not nearly enough info for help us on this one
 
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kingkong98

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yeah my bad, it was in texts not on aim so i couldnt really copy and paste the whole thing. its all good now anyway lol
 

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Her:suck it yourself
Me:im not a dog, you are
Her:Fvck you bye
lololololollolololololo ur so funny u must get all da girls dude.

Seriously, what the ****? Are you really asking "did i go to far"?
 

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omg that is funny, i hope you have not just recentley met this girl.
 
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