nicksaiz65
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There was a party out of town going on. But I have a test worth 25% of my grade on Monday. Skipped the party to study. Did I do the right thing?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Did I do the right thing?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes...6 years from now you wont give d@mn about that party...but your academics determines how much money you'll make later on...and you'll be partying in all the hottest clubs and b@nging all the hottest females....hard work and dedication always pays off....
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ethanscott
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Do you even have to ask?
MoreThanSmooth
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Dunno how old you are, but in your 20's and even 30's parties are ten-a-penny. You can have a party whenever you want when you have your own place - just buy some snacks and alcohol and let the good times roll.
On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
wifehunter
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Be a 'one man party', that way there's a party wherever you go!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nicksaiz65
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Yeah I’m 21 years old. Thanks for the input, guys!
