nicksaiz65
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There was a party out of town going on. But I have a test worth 25% of my grade on Monday. Skipped the party to study. Did I do the right thing?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Did I do the right thing?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes...6 years from now you wont give d@mn about that party...but your academics determines how much money you'll make later on...and you'll be partying in all the hottest clubs and b@nging all the hottest females....hard work and dedication always pays off....
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ethanscott
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Do you even have to ask?
MoreThanSmooth
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Dunno how old you are, but in your 20's and even 30's parties are ten-a-penny. You can have a party whenever you want when you have your own place - just buy some snacks and alcohol and let the good times roll.
On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
wifehunter
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Be a 'one man party', that way there's a party wherever you go!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
nicksaiz65
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Yeah I’m 21 years old. Thanks for the input, guys!
