nicksaiz65
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There was a party out of town going on. But I have a test worth 25% of my grade on Monday. Skipped the party to study. Did I do the right thing?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Did I do the right thing?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes...6 years from now you wont give d@mn about that party...but your academics determines how much money you'll make later on...and you'll be partying in all the hottest clubs and b@nging all the hottest females....hard work and dedication always pays off....
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ethanscott
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Do you even have to ask?
MoreThanSmooth
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Dunno how old you are, but in your 20's and even 30's parties are ten-a-penny. You can have a party whenever you want when you have your own place - just buy some snacks and alcohol and let the good times roll.
On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
wifehunter
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Be a 'one man party', that way there's a party wherever you go!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nicksaiz65
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Yeah I’m 21 years old. Thanks for the input, guys!
