"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Did I do the right thing?

nicksaiz65

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There was a party out of town going on. But I have a test worth 25% of my grade on Monday. Skipped the party to study. Did I do the right thing?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Xenom0rph

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Yes...6 years from now you wont give d@mn about that party...but your academics determines how much money you'll make later on...and you'll be partying in all the hottest clubs and b@nging all the hottest females....hard work and dedication always pays off....
 
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MoreThanSmooth

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Dunno how old you are, but in your 20's and even 30's parties are ten-a-penny. You can have a party whenever you want when you have your own place - just buy some snacks and alcohol and let the good times roll.

On the other hand, you get one shot to nail your exams. And living in a cardboard box and thinking back to that bad night you got drunk and puked everywhere when you should have been securing your future is not a good retrospective to have.
 

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Be a 'one man party', that way there's a party wherever you go!:p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nicksaiz65

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Yeah I’m 21 years old. Thanks for the input, guys!
 
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