Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Destroying Social Phobias

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This is a truly incredible post, it's basically the budding DJ's handbook.
Amazing, and great.
NICE!! :D
True DJ stuff.
 

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and good job to the guy that bumped it up from 2003 :)
 

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links have been fixed
 

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Stuff like this never gets old. Time to shut off my computer and go out to the world and practice practice practice.
 

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I just read it myself. It sure is worth another bump. I've even noticed things I have told others in here and in real life, e.g. talk to bar staff, befriend others in night spots, approach all people, not just women.

No more Us and Them...get comfy talking to any stranger. Then when you want to approach a nice gurl, save your brain power for the opening lines and absorbing tactical information, not wasting it on being scared witless...stress kills your logic centre, and you will flub lines and body language for sure.
 

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Teen Spirit said:
Boschy said:
absorbing tactical information,
Absorbing tactical information? You're a virgin, right? If not, you should be.

I suggest you read more of Fingz' more recent posts.
Huh? When I said "absorbing tactical information", I just meant looking for possible conversation topics: clothes, environment, weather, situation, etc.

Now, what did you mean?
 

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BUMP this is an AWESOME THREAD

i totally agree that it's so important to first develop social skills with people in general before seriously macking on girls.

you gotta be to hold a decent conversation with people you don't know really well before u can start actually macking on women.

thanks for this thread

10 FINGERS UP
 

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This needs to be read by anyone who hasn't already read it.
 
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bravo this is a great thread , why isnt this stickied
 

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great advice... but I still have some trouble. After talking to many people in one day, my social anxiety seems to be fully disappeared... at least very low. But the next morning it starts all over again.
I have experienced this many times, and when I think the anxiety is gone at the end of the day, it starts all over again the next morning... damn, it almost seems to be impossible to get out of the cycle. I have been suffering from this anxiety for a year now.
 

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bumping this as this is a great thread; wish SS would have more quality posters these days. All the best stuff are in the archives!
 
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