Destroying Social Phobias

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It is now Sunday morning, 10:36 AM and I just finish reading this really well written post. You have me so pumped to go out and meet people that I am going to the local restaurant for breakfast right now. I was out last night and met some new people but and can't help it after reading that I have to go somewhere public. Good work!!!!
 

How This "Nice Guy" Steals Women from Jerks

Did you know a woman can be totally UN-ATTRACTED to you...

And she'll still sleep with you?

If you've ever seen a girl go home with some asshole she didn't even LIKE, you know this is true.

But how is this possible?

Because deep inside her brain, sexual desire has nothing to do with what you LOOK like...

And everything to do with how you make her FEEL.

Matt Cook knows this all too well.

Matt is a nice guy... but he steals women from JERKS all the time.

In this free video training below, he'll show you how he does it:

How to Control Her Emotions and Make Her Chase You

Hot Ice

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#42
oOH, you got my thumbs up, Mr. Fingers.

You made me remember that I need to practice those converation skills more.
I've always been good at using tension and my charisma to advantage, but I've never been really Good at convos...

Cheers!
 
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#43
Holy fukkin crap dude. This is the best thing I have ever read in my life. I am not just saying that either. So much knowledge and entertainment condensed into this beautifully written post it is unbelievable. If you don't write professionally, you really should consider it. I would love to say much more here, but instead I will follow your advice. Time to shut down and head out!

Much respect! and Thank You
 
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One on One

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#46
I love coming back to this thread and seeing what step I'm currently at. Right now, I'm beginning to do kino which is a hell of a lot further on than I thought I'd be in such a short time. Only a few more steps to go!
 
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ohhhhhhh, I get it now!

this is a SERIES! I read part 3 (Alpha Essence) and was totally lost! You should have numbered these threads man. I stand corrected Fingers. Count me in as one of your disciples! ;) Just don't expect me to shave my head and drink the funny KoolAid under a full moon while chanting Latin backwards and we can be pals! Seriously though, I have a new respect for you and will have to re-read the other threads now.

Nice writing, blabbermouth! :D
 

Mr. Fingers

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#48
Just realized I haven´t responded to all of you here. How very un-alpha of me!

To: Logic, Crotch Sniffer (???), dip, Miles Davis, icehot, Evil-Rom, Foreigner, Gungnir, es_mer8, bust.it, Trial Error, Flyguy, Drow, legolas, sonick182, Starman, RawkinChaoticStyle, Duke & Brasco
Thank you all for your kind words and appreciation! I am happy that I have inspired yall to reach the next level and/or entertained you with my words. As always it is my hope that your inspiration will transform into ACTION. Best of luck to yall and Happy Macking!

To: Ninja Dude
I am honored you used your first post for me. CHeers! As for the other plane of existence, I am already there! Can you feel me?

To: Bonhomme
I never thought of my post as a Tao but maybe it is.
I will definitely give you a shout when I head to Detroit next Spring. What is up with Detroit anyway? Is it me or are there a ton of PUA´s living out there? Curious how the fare of ladies is. Anyways..Thanks for the 8 thumbs-up Dude!

To: dave134
It's great that you are progressing so fast! I have found that the first 3 gates are the hardest to get through. Should be smooth sailing for you from here on out. Don't forget to post the field reports when you are neck-deep in nekkid ladies!

To: Don Ron
LMFAO! :D :D :D
 
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#50
This is some of the best self-help advice I've ever gotten. No need to buy Dr. Phil's "Self Matters" Just read Mr. Finger's "Get the phuk out there and make something happen" :D

Now go get a PhD and change your name to Dr. Fingers :p
 

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#51
Ahhhh, legolas! So you are the one who started this Dr. thang

friggin hilarious dude.

I am glad my nonstop ramblings have helped you and I dunno man, I just may have to steal that title if I ever do write a book..hope you don't mind!
 
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#52
Well man, I identify A LOT with what you say... I'm going through all these things in a smaller scale... Haven't been able to go out as much as I could but... making the most out of my part time...

You'll understand me when I say this... for some people, this isn't about DJing the ladies anymore... nor becoming a super popular dude... it's about living the life you've always wanted too... the life we all deserve to live... with lots of friends, lots of experiences (good, bad, learning ones) and with a lot of happiness....

It's like, after a whole life holding ourselves, we're allowing ourselves to be the MEN we've always wanted to..

Very, Very great post...
Congratulations man !!

BBB
 

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#53
It's amazing how you really GET what I am saying here! This lifestyle is our heritage..our BIRTHRIGHT and yet so many of us relinquish it for the false promises of society...status, women, power, money, et fukkin cetera. It's like the famous story the Buddha told about the beggar.. ever hear that one?

There was once an old beggar on the streets who sat on a wooden crate for 20 years and begged strangers for money every day. One day a man approached him and the beggar put out his hand as he always did. "Please sir..spare some change?"

The man replied, "The only change you need to make is to look a little harder for your wealth...tell me in all your years sitting on that wooden box, have you ever thought to peek inside?" With that the man walked away and the beggar silently fumed for a second before he realized the man was right! In 20 years he had never opened the box. He jumped to his feet, pried the box open with a knife and found a treasure worthy of kings! Gold, precious stones and pricelss relics had been under his nose the whole time!

And so we all walk through life, struggling as beggars do for scraps of fleeting pleasures when all the while we sit on the priceless treasures of our dreams and happiness!
 

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#54
Originally posted by Mr. Fingers
Ahhhh, legolas! So you are the one who started this Dr. thang

friggin hilarious dude.

I am glad my nonstop ramblings have helped you and I dunno man, I just may have to steal that title if I ever do write a book..hope you don't mind!
I don't mind, just as long as I get 35% of the profits. My lawyer will be in contact.....

Hihihihihihi :D :D
 
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#55
After readin the DJ Bible, I was so confused. There is jus 2 much info in it. Great info, yes but all over the place with no continuity. This post, howevr, is on som next-level ****! I just read this and I am so inspired to go out there and live the life I always wanted! Im sure you heard ita million times but THANK YOU. You are an inspiration to us all! I see you have written a few other posts and will be sure to read them, once I am done shutting down this machine and interacting with some flesh-and-blood-people! Time to face these fear
 
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#56
nice one mr.fingers!

i think i have issues with all of the gates. yesterday i was walking down the sidewalk, and i saw this girl off in the far distance. part of me was HOPING she was a UG so i wouldn't have to look at her. but i saw she was pretty hot -- as she approached i gave her some strong eye contact that lasted for quite a bit of time because she started looking at me from far away. but i just couldn't get the smile out!! uggggh, and she almost had a smirk on her face.

immediately after she passed me, i almost burst out laughing, and i had a huge smile on my face. damn, if only i had had a smile like that a few seconds earlier!
 

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Well this is the first thread ever that I took the time to give a star to :)). Well five stars actually, great work! ;)
 

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#58
I think this one is overdue. I think Mr Fingers is an exceptional poster yet to be recognised in the DJB, so I have changed that.

Nick
 
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#59
ThE SitUaTioN WiLL NeVeR COmE at U Again

ThE SitUaTioN WiLL NeVeR COmE at U Again

Embrace the moment...


I have seen through my experience that the situations I am waiting for to meet women come at you when you Do NOT expect..... So when it comes TO YOU ............DO NOT EVEN BLINK BRO' ! .... just say to yourself "Go, go, go" or "FIRE!"
 

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You'll understand me when I say this... for some people, this isn't about DJing the ladies anymore... nor becoming a super popular dude... it's about living the life you've always wanted too... the life we all deserve to live... with lots of friends, lots of experiences (good, bad, learning ones) and with a lot of happiness....
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oh my god, this is EXACTLY WHAT being a DJ Is. im great i got people who agree with me.
 
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