Ken785
Master Don Juan
whats "blue balls" supposed to mean?? i never got that word....does it mean that when you dont get sex like youre suppose to that your balls are sad, therefore "blue"?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bigjohnson said:I've read that there is no medical evidence for actual color change caused by restriction of circulation in the testicles, but if you have a source for that I'd love to see it. The correct term IIRC is vasocongestion and while painful turns (AFAIK) nothing blue.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls
bigjohnson said:I've read that there is no medical evidence for actual color change caused by restriction of circulation in the testicles, but if you have a source for that I'd love to see it. The correct term IIRC is vasocongestion and while painful turns (AFAIK) nothing blue.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls
backbreaker said:you are atrue dumbass if you think your nuts actually turn blue.
the resaon it's called blue balls is becuase blue is associated with pain. remember the old cartoons when someone would get say, an ACME thingy smaed on their foot and it turned red or blue? or a sledgehammer in the leg or something and it would change colors? And blue balls has a better ring to it than red balls
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm not looking for a detailed series of conjectures here, all I'm saying is that I was told it's a figure of speech and when I briefly looked around I didn't see anything to disprove that. If you actually have something I'd be interested to see that source.Teflon_Mcgee said:Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't it a well known fact that the less oxygenated blood turns bluish compared to normal circulating blood?
Teflon_Mcgee said:OMG. Your right. Blue balls is derived from the Road Runner. It's so simple.
backbreaker said:exactly. Loony tunes is the answer to most of the world's problems today
Blood is blue when it is not exposed to air... not your nutts.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.