Ken785
Master Don Juan
whats "blue balls" supposed to mean?? i never got that word....does it mean that when you dont get sex like youre suppose to that your balls are sad, therefore "blue"?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bigjohnson said:I've read that there is no medical evidence for actual color change caused by restriction of circulation in the testicles, but if you have a source for that I'd love to see it. The correct term IIRC is vasocongestion and while painful turns (AFAIK) nothing blue.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls
bigjohnson said:I've read that there is no medical evidence for actual color change caused by restriction of circulation in the testicles, but if you have a source for that I'd love to see it. The correct term IIRC is vasocongestion and while painful turns (AFAIK) nothing blue.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls
backbreaker said:you are atrue dumbass if you think your nuts actually turn blue.
the resaon it's called blue balls is becuase blue is associated with pain. remember the old cartoons when someone would get say, an ACME thingy smaed on their foot and it turned red or blue? or a sledgehammer in the leg or something and it would change colors? And blue balls has a better ring to it than red balls
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm not looking for a detailed series of conjectures here, all I'm saying is that I was told it's a figure of speech and when I briefly looked around I didn't see anything to disprove that. If you actually have something I'd be interested to see that source.Teflon_Mcgee said:Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't it a well known fact that the less oxygenated blood turns bluish compared to normal circulating blood?
Teflon_Mcgee said:OMG. Your right. Blue balls is derived from the Road Runner. It's so simple.
backbreaker said:exactly. Loony tunes is the answer to most of the world's problems today
Blood is blue when it is not exposed to air... not your nutts.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.