Ken785
Master Don Juan
whats "blue balls" supposed to mean?? i never got that word....does it mean that when you dont get sex like youre suppose to that your balls are sad, therefore "blue"?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bigjohnson said:I've read that there is no medical evidence for actual color change caused by restriction of circulation in the testicles, but if you have a source for that I'd love to see it. The correct term IIRC is vasocongestion and while painful turns (AFAIK) nothing blue.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls
bigjohnson said:I've read that there is no medical evidence for actual color change caused by restriction of circulation in the testicles, but if you have a source for that I'd love to see it. The correct term IIRC is vasocongestion and while painful turns (AFAIK) nothing blue.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls
backbreaker said:you are atrue dumbass if you think your nuts actually turn blue.
the resaon it's called blue balls is becuase blue is associated with pain. remember the old cartoons when someone would get say, an ACME thingy smaed on their foot and it turned red or blue? or a sledgehammer in the leg or something and it would change colors? And blue balls has a better ring to it than red balls
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm not looking for a detailed series of conjectures here, all I'm saying is that I was told it's a figure of speech and when I briefly looked around I didn't see anything to disprove that. If you actually have something I'd be interested to see that source.Teflon_Mcgee said:Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't it a well known fact that the less oxygenated blood turns bluish compared to normal circulating blood?
Teflon_Mcgee said:OMG. Your right. Blue balls is derived from the Road Runner. It's so simple.
backbreaker said:exactly. Loony tunes is the answer to most of the world's problems today
Blood is blue when it is not exposed to air... not your nutts.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.