"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dealing with Snapchat Hoes

nicksaiz65

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Okay, this is a really basic and specific question, but I don’t know why I never thought to ask it. I’m still getting used to dealing with hoes over Snapchat.

So you all know how girls will post videos of themselves looking sexy? I’m sure it’s a thirst trap and they’re looking for validation. But how do you handle this as a Don Juan? Do you walk into the trap and compliment them to make your intentions clear? Or do you just flat out ignore it?

I’d love to know how you guys handle this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MatureDJ

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I would respond with: "This is making me very excited; I want to visit you and share my excitement."
 

Serenity

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I'd respond out of the ordinary. Everyone compliments, it's boring. Just respond with "k", because who does that? What does it even mean? Haven't tried it, but it could potentially be amusing.

Ignoring is just... Ignoring. Doesn't pull attention.

I would respond with: "This is making me very excited; I want to visit you and share my excitement."
This is a compliment, it's expected, it's boring. It doesn't excite them that you're excited.
 

devilkingx2

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It's only thirsty if you sound like a beta male

It's only creepy if you're smooth like sandpaper

It's only desperate if you chase like a puppy

So simply flirt like a confident man, and if she ignores you or doesn't respond well, you don't care and didn't notice, *shrugs* delete/ignore her and move on to the next one

only get rejected once before you never speak to them ever again though
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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redskinsfan92

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I'd probably get banned from Snapchat for replying. Apparently I'm an @**hole.
 
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