"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dealing with Snapchat Hoes

nicksaiz65

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Okay, this is a really basic and specific question, but I don’t know why I never thought to ask it. I’m still getting used to dealing with hoes over Snapchat.

So you all know how girls will post videos of themselves looking sexy? I’m sure it’s a thirst trap and they’re looking for validation. But how do you handle this as a Don Juan? Do you walk into the trap and compliment them to make your intentions clear? Or do you just flat out ignore it?

I’d love to know how you guys handle this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MatureDJ

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I would respond with: "This is making me very excited; I want to visit you and share my excitement."
 

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I'd respond out of the ordinary. Everyone compliments, it's boring. Just respond with "k", because who does that? What does it even mean? Haven't tried it, but it could potentially be amusing.

Ignoring is just... Ignoring. Doesn't pull attention.

I would respond with: "This is making me very excited; I want to visit you and share my excitement."
This is a compliment, it's expected, it's boring. It doesn't excite them that you're excited.
 

devilkingx2

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It's only thirsty if you sound like a beta male

It's only creepy if you're smooth like sandpaper

It's only desperate if you chase like a puppy

So simply flirt like a confident man, and if she ignores you or doesn't respond well, you don't care and didn't notice, *shrugs* delete/ignore her and move on to the next one

only get rejected once before you never speak to them ever again though
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd probably get banned from Snapchat for replying. Apparently I'm an @**hole.
 
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