"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dealing with Snapchat Hoes

nicksaiz65

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Okay, this is a really basic and specific question, but I don’t know why I never thought to ask it. I’m still getting used to dealing with hoes over Snapchat.

So you all know how girls will post videos of themselves looking sexy? I’m sure it’s a thirst trap and they’re looking for validation. But how do you handle this as a Don Juan? Do you walk into the trap and compliment them to make your intentions clear? Or do you just flat out ignore it?

I’d love to know how you guys handle this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MatureDJ

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I would respond with: "This is making me very excited; I want to visit you and share my excitement."
 

Serenity

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I'd respond out of the ordinary. Everyone compliments, it's boring. Just respond with "k", because who does that? What does it even mean? Haven't tried it, but it could potentially be amusing.

Ignoring is just... Ignoring. Doesn't pull attention.

I would respond with: "This is making me very excited; I want to visit you and share my excitement."
This is a compliment, it's expected, it's boring. It doesn't excite them that you're excited.
 

devilkingx2

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It's only thirsty if you sound like a beta male

It's only creepy if you're smooth like sandpaper

It's only desperate if you chase like a puppy

So simply flirt like a confident man, and if she ignores you or doesn't respond well, you don't care and didn't notice, *shrugs* delete/ignore her and move on to the next one

only get rejected once before you never speak to them ever again though
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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redskinsfan92

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I'd probably get banned from Snapchat for replying. Apparently I'm an @**hole.
 
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