Dealing with missed opportunities

[JonnyD123]

I'm having trouble getting over "what if" situations, basically things out of my control. Point and case, this girl I met a while back, kept her on the back burner until I recently broke up with me ex. She's wanted me for a long time. Got in contact, she tells me to come over, she has food waiting, brand new panties she wants to show me, the whole nine. I was flying in that day and my flight got diverted.

Long story short it didn't happen and just can't wrap my brain around things like that. Quick fix is have more abundance mentality, but long term how do you deal with this stuff internally?

 

[Thorninmyside]

Forget coulds, shoulds, and woulds. There's only what is and what isn't.

 

[Trump]

Quick fix is have more abundance mentality, but long term how do you deal with this stuff internally?

Quick fix is not have more abundance mentality, it's go get a hooker.

Long term you deal with it by having an abundance mentality. If you had another girl waiting for you, you would forget about this one. Plus, if the girl cared at all, she would have called you and said let's arrange for another day. She didn't care.

 

[marmel75]

I'm having trouble getting over "what if" situations, basically things out of my control. Point and case, this girl I met a while back, kept her on the back burner until I recently broke up with me ex. She's wanted me for a long time. Got in contact, she tells me to come over, she has food waiting, brand new panties she wants to show me, the whole nine. I was flying in that day and my flight got diverted.

Long story short it didn't happen and just can't wrap my brain around things like that. Quick fix is have more abundance mentality, but long term how do you deal with this stuff internally?

Easy, you actively work on more women. You are stuck on what its because you are lazy and don't want to put in any work...it's easier for you to think about girls you have number for than ones you need to meet

 

[Urbanyst]

Don't buy into the FAKE urgency and high pressure sales tactic women use in relationships to keep you emotionally off balance.

A better way to look at things is if a woman really likes you.. she will find time to see you and f*ck you. She will not lose interest because you weren't available that ONE time she was horny lol. If she does.. it was never about you to begin with.