"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating is fun. Act like it

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Fellow gentle men and FrogTheRichard,
I hope you all have had a swell week. And if you have not; let’s have a kick ass weekend.
I assume quite a few of you are going to engage in some dates this weekend. So enjoy them. Go in with the mindset that you will have fun no matter what. But in order to do that take them to something you genuinely enjoy. I personally don’t like the old bar and some drinks bit, instead I take my women to D&Bs. I’m a cheap mofo so I A LOT of tokens saved up from winning games. And there’s the possibility for some drinks. Plus I genuinely enjoy the time I spend there.
So this weekend I say screw impressing them(or trying to. Wether consciously or subconsciously) and impress yourself
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fellow gentle men and FrogTheRichard,
I hope you all have had a swell week. And if you have not; let’s have a kick ass weekend.
I assume quite a few of you are going to engage in some dates this weekend. So enjoy them. Go in with the mindset that you will have fun no matter what. But in order to do that take them to something you genuinely enjoy. I personally don’t like the old bar and some drinks bit, instead I take my women to D&Bs. I’m a cheap mofo so I A LOT of tokens saved up from winning games. And there’s the possibility for some drinks. Plus I genuinely enjoy the time I spend there.
So this weekend I say screw impressing them(or trying to. Wether consciously or subconsciously) and impress yourself
Quit mentioning me. You don't know me, you weak little man.
 

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he was saying something nice and giving you hope big baby
 

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Exactly. Dating is fun ... if you’re getting dates. Most men here struggle with the conditional “if” part because they are lazy or fearful.
 

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"Dating is fun. Act like it"

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Exactly. Dating is fun ... if you’re getting dates. Most men here struggle with the conditional “if” part because they are lazy or fearful.
I get a lot of dates from old but they are usually crap. Jeez. I rarely go on worthful date. Half of my dates are like other side is unhappy and doesnt want to be there. I assume i dont meet their expectations
 

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I get a lot of dates from old but they are usually crap. Jeez. I rarely go on worthful date. Half of my dates are like other side is unhappy and doesnt want to be there. I assume i dont meet their expectations
Sample size of two renders this meaningless. Get 10-20 under your belt, see the results, and then we can talk further.
 

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Too many people act like its a life and death struggle
 

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It's a blast. See every interaction as an opportunity, enjoy the process, be open to people & enjoy yourself without taking yourself, others, or life too seriously.

That is the secret to magnetic people. They are attractive because of the joy they radiate outward.

Live, date and love from a place of joy and you'll never lack for companionship.
 

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It's a blast. See every interaction as an opportunity, enjoy the process, be open to people & enjoy yourself without taking yourself, others, or life too seriously.

That is the secret to magnetic people. They are attractive because of the joy they radiate outward.

Live, date and love from a place of joy and you'll never lack for companionship.
Some people just get it. Others don’t. The less people that get it. The better for the men that do. Women sense when a guy radiates positivity and confidence. They gravitate towards that man, or group etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some people just get it. Others don’t. The less people that get it. The better for the men that do. Women sense when a guy radiates positivity and confidence. They gravitate towards that man, or group etc.
You "get it?"......

*Match on Tinder*...

You: Hey wanna fvck
Her: Sure, come over

Do you think "it" = they like your pictures?
 
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