"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dating is fun. Act like it

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Fellow gentle men and FrogTheRichard,
I hope you all have had a swell week. And if you have not; let’s have a kick ass weekend.
I assume quite a few of you are going to engage in some dates this weekend. So enjoy them. Go in with the mindset that you will have fun no matter what. But in order to do that take them to something you genuinely enjoy. I personally don’t like the old bar and some drinks bit, instead I take my women to D&Bs. I’m a cheap mofo so I A LOT of tokens saved up from winning games. And there’s the possibility for some drinks. Plus I genuinely enjoy the time I spend there.
So this weekend I say screw impressing them(or trying to. Wether consciously or subconsciously) and impress yourself
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fellow gentle men and FrogTheRichard,
I hope you all have had a swell week. And if you have not; let’s have a kick ass weekend.
I assume quite a few of you are going to engage in some dates this weekend. So enjoy them. Go in with the mindset that you will have fun no matter what. But in order to do that take them to something you genuinely enjoy. I personally don’t like the old bar and some drinks bit, instead I take my women to D&Bs. I’m a cheap mofo so I A LOT of tokens saved up from winning games. And there’s the possibility for some drinks. Plus I genuinely enjoy the time I spend there.
So this weekend I say screw impressing them(or trying to. Wether consciously or subconsciously) and impress yourself
Quit mentioning me. You don't know me, you weak little man.
 

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he was saying something nice and giving you hope big baby
 

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Exactly. Dating is fun ... if you’re getting dates. Most men here struggle with the conditional “if” part because they are lazy or fearful.
 

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"Dating is fun. Act like it"

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Exactly. Dating is fun ... if you’re getting dates. Most men here struggle with the conditional “if” part because they are lazy or fearful.
I get a lot of dates from old but they are usually crap. Jeez. I rarely go on worthful date. Half of my dates are like other side is unhappy and doesnt want to be there. I assume i dont meet their expectations
 

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I get a lot of dates from old but they are usually crap. Jeez. I rarely go on worthful date. Half of my dates are like other side is unhappy and doesnt want to be there. I assume i dont meet their expectations
Sample size of two renders this meaningless. Get 10-20 under your belt, see the results, and then we can talk further.
 

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Too many people act like its a life and death struggle
 

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It's a blast. See every interaction as an opportunity, enjoy the process, be open to people & enjoy yourself without taking yourself, others, or life too seriously.

That is the secret to magnetic people. They are attractive because of the joy they radiate outward.

Live, date and love from a place of joy and you'll never lack for companionship.
 

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It's a blast. See every interaction as an opportunity, enjoy the process, be open to people & enjoy yourself without taking yourself, others, or life too seriously.

That is the secret to magnetic people. They are attractive because of the joy they radiate outward.

Live, date and love from a place of joy and you'll never lack for companionship.
Some people just get it. Others don’t. The less people that get it. The better for the men that do. Women sense when a guy radiates positivity and confidence. They gravitate towards that man, or group etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some people just get it. Others don’t. The less people that get it. The better for the men that do. Women sense when a guy radiates positivity and confidence. They gravitate towards that man, or group etc.
You "get it?"......

*Match on Tinder*...

You: Hey wanna fvck
Her: Sure, come over

Do you think "it" = they like your pictures?
 
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