"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating is fun. Act like it

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Fellow gentle men and FrogTheRichard,
I hope you all have had a swell week. And if you have not; let’s have a kick ass weekend.
I assume quite a few of you are going to engage in some dates this weekend. So enjoy them. Go in with the mindset that you will have fun no matter what. But in order to do that take them to something you genuinely enjoy. I personally don’t like the old bar and some drinks bit, instead I take my women to D&Bs. I’m a cheap mofo so I A LOT of tokens saved up from winning games. And there’s the possibility for some drinks. Plus I genuinely enjoy the time I spend there.
So this weekend I say screw impressing them(or trying to. Wether consciously or subconsciously) and impress yourself
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fellow gentle men and FrogTheRichard,
I hope you all have had a swell week. And if you have not; let’s have a kick ass weekend.
I assume quite a few of you are going to engage in some dates this weekend. So enjoy them. Go in with the mindset that you will have fun no matter what. But in order to do that take them to something you genuinely enjoy. I personally don’t like the old bar and some drinks bit, instead I take my women to D&Bs. I’m a cheap mofo so I A LOT of tokens saved up from winning games. And there’s the possibility for some drinks. Plus I genuinely enjoy the time I spend there.
So this weekend I say screw impressing them(or trying to. Wether consciously or subconsciously) and impress yourself
Quit mentioning me. You don't know me, you weak little man.
 

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he was saying something nice and giving you hope big baby
 

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Exactly. Dating is fun ... if you’re getting dates. Most men here struggle with the conditional “if” part because they are lazy or fearful.
 

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"Dating is fun. Act like it"

 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Exactly. Dating is fun ... if you’re getting dates. Most men here struggle with the conditional “if” part because they are lazy or fearful.
I get a lot of dates from old but they are usually crap. Jeez. I rarely go on worthful date. Half of my dates are like other side is unhappy and doesnt want to be there. I assume i dont meet their expectations
 

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I get a lot of dates from old but they are usually crap. Jeez. I rarely go on worthful date. Half of my dates are like other side is unhappy and doesnt want to be there. I assume i dont meet their expectations
Sample size of two renders this meaningless. Get 10-20 under your belt, see the results, and then we can talk further.
 

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Too many people act like its a life and death struggle
 

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It's a blast. See every interaction as an opportunity, enjoy the process, be open to people & enjoy yourself without taking yourself, others, or life too seriously.

That is the secret to magnetic people. They are attractive because of the joy they radiate outward.

Live, date and love from a place of joy and you'll never lack for companionship.
 

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It's a blast. See every interaction as an opportunity, enjoy the process, be open to people & enjoy yourself without taking yourself, others, or life too seriously.

That is the secret to magnetic people. They are attractive because of the joy they radiate outward.

Live, date and love from a place of joy and you'll never lack for companionship.
Some people just get it. Others don’t. The less people that get it. The better for the men that do. Women sense when a guy radiates positivity and confidence. They gravitate towards that man, or group etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some people just get it. Others don’t. The less people that get it. The better for the men that do. Women sense when a guy radiates positivity and confidence. They gravitate towards that man, or group etc.
You "get it?"......

*Match on Tinder*...

You: Hey wanna fvck
Her: Sure, come over

Do you think "it" = they like your pictures?
 
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