Neither of us want kids. That's one appealing thing which is rare
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dating girls who still date after having sex.
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Neither of us want kids. That's one appealing thing which is rare
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I totally agree about the paradox. If she feels comfortable and safe but wants to date, then I going to fill my schedule with others. Maybe she change that tune. Even if she does that was her decision before and just see if I can keep it as a lay for a little while.
Don't believe it. Why would she tell you this if you didn't ask? Either for sympathy or to be a victim.
After 7 months of meeting guys, making plans and dating, she finally found you, someone she can connect with and feel safe enough with to have sex. Yet, she is still dating a little. Isn't that a paradox? Why is she looking to date more people if she completely and utterly and soulessly gave her body to you?
Exactly bro. So either she is completely lying or isn't telling the truth.
My response would be 'Honey, you are FORTY year old woman. Unless you are an Accoutant, Doctor, Lawyer, Scientist, or Engineer, any thinking you do is not relevant to society. And since you probably can't get pregnant your value is close to 0. But I'd still like to have sex with you.'
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yes, it HAS to be a lay. If it's not a lay that's not good, because you might be the guy she calls when she wants dinner or a nice date and she calls other guy to lay the pipe.
This is what I have concluded. I will play the field for fun and not really give a ****.
She is gone cold and I may venture back in town and not even tell her but maybe let her figure out on FB or something. If she is not thinking about curious when I am coming back then Im not wasting my time.
If I'm laying it to her she is not going to any any others. If it did stop then I bolt anyway after leaving her a upper decker lol jk
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
After 4 dates and only a week? Then I leave town for 3 weeks?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How most but not all women are... If you are hitting it often like 3-5 times a week, she likely won't take on any additional d1ck. If she does it will be very occasional, but she won't have two guys in there going 3-5 times a week.
I will know if she does. She is fairly busy and goes to bed early most nights. If it's no date on Saturday and no text then that will be the sign