Neither of us want kids. That's one appealing thing which is rare
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dating girls who still date after having sex.
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Neither of us want kids. That's one appealing thing which is rare
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I totally agree about the paradox. If she feels comfortable and safe but wants to date, then I going to fill my schedule with others. Maybe she change that tune. Even if she does that was her decision before and just see if I can keep it as a lay for a little while.
Don't believe it. Why would she tell you this if you didn't ask? Either for sympathy or to be a victim.
After 7 months of meeting guys, making plans and dating, she finally found you, someone she can connect with and feel safe enough with to have sex. Yet, she is still dating a little. Isn't that a paradox? Why is she looking to date more people if she completely and utterly and soulessly gave her body to you?
Exactly bro. So either she is completely lying or isn't telling the truth.
My response would be 'Honey, you are FORTY year old woman. Unless you are an Accoutant, Doctor, Lawyer, Scientist, or Engineer, any thinking you do is not relevant to society. And since you probably can't get pregnant your value is close to 0. But I'd still like to have sex with you.'
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yes, it HAS to be a lay. If it's not a lay that's not good, because you might be the guy she calls when she wants dinner or a nice date and she calls other guy to lay the pipe.
This is what I have concluded. I will play the field for fun and not really give a ****.
She is gone cold and I may venture back in town and not even tell her but maybe let her figure out on FB or something. If she is not thinking about curious when I am coming back then Im not wasting my time.
If I'm laying it to her she is not going to any any others. If it did stop then I bolt anyway after leaving her a upper decker lol jk
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
After 4 dates and only a week? Then I leave town for 3 weeks?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How most but not all women are... If you are hitting it often like 3-5 times a week, she likely won't take on any additional d1ck. If she does it will be very occasional, but she won't have two guys in there going 3-5 times a week.
I will know if she does. She is fairly busy and goes to bed early most nights. If it's no date on Saturday and no text then that will be the sign